Getting Past Your Past

Mar 22, 2026    Dr. Don

Everyone carries history that sometimes includes painful experiences - being left out, marginalized,

judged, or told we weren't good enough. These experiences create negative messages that others

spoke over us, which often become the things we say to ourselves about ourselves. Even after

accepting Christ, many believers struggle with residue from their past because we bring our entire

history into our new life.


Jesus offers healing through the prayer of honesty, a four-step process that begins with complete

transparency before God about our pain. We must pour out our hearts like David did in the Psalms,

expressing the full weight of our hurt without holding back. After this emotional release, we wait

quietly before God, allowing the Holy Spirit to bring new perspective to our painful memories. Finally,

we praise God for the new meaning He brings to our experiences.


Like Joseph in Genesis, who eventually saw God's purpose in his brothers' betrayal, we can learn to

reinterpret our past through the lens of God's love and purpose. Our new identity in Christ declares us

lovable, valuable, forgivable, and changeable. While the devil knows our name but calls us by our sin,

Jesus knows our sin but calls us by His name. This healing isn't just for our benefit - it's for everyone

whose life intersects with ours as we step into the fullness of our future in Him.